Family Isn’t Always Blood

A young woman recently sent us this poem about growing up in a children’s house. She is passionate about telling others about her experience. I think the poem also expresses that kind of second chance that young people get when they find someone who loves them.

David Woodier, SAIA Chief Blogger

I am a 19-year-old girl, who has been looked after from the age of four months. I have experienced many different care settings but this poem reflects my first placement in a children’s house.

Writing has always been a release for me, expressing myself on paper is a way to dilute the intensity of the emotions going through me. And also a way to understand myself more. The small number of care experienced young people, CEYP, who have read my poem, have told me it has really resonated with them, so if I touches anyone either living or working in the system and makes them think, then that’s more than I could have ever hoped for.

I currently study social care with an aspiration of becoming a social worker to help other young people. I am actively involved in evoking positive change for CEYP, I am a founding member of my locality’s champions board, I’m on the corporate parent sub group, and I am involved in the Children’s hearing system on a national scale.

Beth

First published as ‘Family Isn't Always Blood’ www.saia.org.uk/blog 2017 © 2017 Beth. Permission granted to reproduce for personal and educational use only. Copyright notice must remain intact.
First published as ‘Family Isn’t Always Blood’ www.saia.org.uk/blog 2017
© 2017 Beth. Permission granted to reproduce for personal and educational use only. Copyright notice must remain intact.

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